Fellas do you have a difficult time coming up with ideas on how to be romantic with your significant other? If so, there’s no need to feel embarrassed, because it’s a common roadblock for most guys. Of course, there are exceptions, where some men seem to naturally have that romantic touch.
Those are the gentlemen from which others seek out advice on how to be romantic.
Women love men who are spontaneous and romantic.
Don’t tell me you haven’t noticed how much women love watching romantic movies, especially romantic comedies.
They go absolutely crazy over those genres.
Romancing your lady in a classy manner is hands down the best way to spark her libido and ignite her passion.
If you’re not one of the naturally gifted men, don’t worry because I’ve provided you with 6 Ideas On How To Be Romantic that won’t cost you a fortune but will have a lasting impact on your significant other.
Let’s check them out…
1)) Using Candles to Spark Some Romance
Get the kind of candles that come in their own glass jar with a lid, because they are safer than the tall traditional candles, won't spill wax all over the place, and when you put the lid on they go out without filling the room with smoke.
I recommend that you choose scented candles with mild scents like vanilla, banana maple, apple, caramel, pineapple, melon, or your significant other's favorite scent.
That’s why it’s important to pay attention to the things she likes, so that you can surprise her on-demand, without having to ask, which will tip her off about what you’re up to.
Here’s a romantic idea that you should try:
a)) Place those nice-smelling candles around the living room, at night of course.
b)) Put on some relaxing music like smooth jazz with no lyrics.
c)) Fix a small platter of fancy cheeses, crackers, grapes, and other finger foods.
d)) Simply lead and sit your significant other down on the couch and have conversations.
You could even put on one of her favorite romantic comedies to enhance your time together.
During this intimate time together, you could run your fingers through her hair or give her a nice neck massage.
You don’t have to always make grand gestures to make an impact in your relationship.
The majority of the time, all you have to do is surprise your lady with the little things that make her happy and she’ll naturally come to you.
2)) Romantic "I Love You" Cards
Get about 15 different "Thinking Of You" and "I love You" greeting cards. Then, over the course of a few months, whenever you have the idea of leaving one in her purse or car or mailing one to her job, you can do it before you forget.
To keep her off balance so that she doesn’t know when to expect one, you should pick random dates to give her a card.
Just write a short personal heartfelt note in each when you send or give it to her.
You could personally bring flowers to her at work at the end of the week as a romantic surprise, and include one of the cards.
Just imagine how special she’d feel and all the compliments she’ll get from envious co-workers raving about how her man brought her flowers.
You’ll gain some major romantic points!
3)) Classic Bubble Bath
You simply cannot go wrong with a warm bubble bath. It’s a classic romantic gesture that will never go out of style.
Here’s what you do…
a)) Purchase your significant other’s favorite scented bubble bath (e.g. cucumber, melon, etc.).
b)) Run the bathwater and add the bubble bath.
c)) Put some of those sweet-smelling candles around the tub.
d)) You could even supply her with a glass of wine.
Then just leave and let her enjoy some peace (unless she asks you to join her).
If you do leave her alone with some wine, be certain to check to make sure she hasn’t fallen asleep, because it’s not a good idea to take a nap in the tub for obvious reasons.
4)) Use Incense to Create a Relaxing Atmosphere
Believe it or not, but the aroma from a great-smelling incense can set the mood and tone of a romantic evening.
Similar to lighting sweet-smelling candles, you can do the same with incense.
You could prepare your significant other’s favorite dinner dish; dim the lights, put on some smooth music, and light incense that compliments the meal.
Avoid super strong-smelling incense that could ruin the taste of the dinner.
Sit there and have a great conversation about all the good times.
Tell her how much you love, care, and appreciate her.
5)) A Blanket can be Romantic
Keep a blanket in your trunk. That way, you can do spontaneous romantic excursions like stopping, laying on the blanket, and looking at the stars on a clear night, or just enjoy relaxing under a tree on a warm day in the park.
If you have space in your trunk, you could keep a picnic basket with all the accessories stored in it.
Then when you get into one of your romantic spontaneous moods, you can simply stop at a grocery store to purchase the picnic food.
This will impress the heck out of your significant other.
6)) Your Romantic Cell Phone
Yes, your cell phone can be romantic. Just by calling your lady out of the blue to tell her how much you love and miss her will brighten the rest of her day.
If you don’t want to totally disrupt her daily routine, you could send loving text messages at random times throughout the week.
You may not realize how powerful a simple phone call or sending a quick text message is.
However, your significant other will totally appreciate the fact that you took time out of your busy day to see how she’s doing.
Those types of actions are what build stronger and lasting bonds between couples.
If you really want to take your romance efforts seriously, try to do something small two or three times a week for your classy ladies, such as sending a handwritten card or note, or make a call, send a heartfelt text message or e-mail.
Try to do something medium for her at least once a week, such as bring home flowers or make a nice dinner, and don’t forget the candles and incense.
And try to do something big for her at least once a month, such as a full evening without the kids that include a nice dinner, a bubble bath, and a massage, all from your heart with no strings attached.
The key is to mix it up to avoid making your romantic gestures routine.
Every once in a while, go a week or two without doing anything romantic except calling or e-mailing to keep in contact.
Then start romancing her again. She'll appreciate it more that way, as it won’t be expected to be the same ol' thing.
Don’t forget, women love romance, and the more romantic you are with your significant other, the more she’ll be attracted to you.
The six ideas on how to be romantic are nothing new, but they’re timeless, and you should take ethical advantage of them by impressing your lady.
Romance is the glue that holds a relationship together, and the lack could be the death of it.
There are no set rules to being romantic, you could mix and match however you please.
Being romantic is only limited to your imagination.
Have fun planning your own romantic gestures!