Have you ever had the negative thoughts that everyone else gets what he or she wants, except for me? Well, therein lays the problem. Thinking thoughts like those are the exact thoughts that will push away the very things you want in your life.
Because those thoughts are a constant reminder of all the things you want in life, but haven’t been able to obtain.
This creates stress and frustration, which can become debilitating to the point where you completely give up any hope on accomplishing your dreams.
There are several ways to get what you really want in your life and negative thoughts are not one of them.
Let’s dive on in to do some discovery…
TIP #1: Being Responsible
Now while being responsible may not sound like a whole lot of fun, it is one surefire way to get what you want in your life. When you take responsibility for your life and stop blaming circumstances or, worse, yet, other people, you will come to realize that your life will head in the exact direction you want it to and not away from you. Now, of course there are opposing forces in any environment, but you must unite with like-minded people, create a plan, and execute on it, even if it’s someone else’s fault, it’s your responsibility to make it right.
TIP #2: Take Action Steps
Rather than always thinking about what you want, how about taking action steps. For example; if you want to change careers, start a business, take a class or two to see if your new career is something that you want to pursue, then go for it!
If you want to be more social, join some groups, if you want to lose some weight start a walking club.
No matter what it is you want to do, action is necessary. However, do not start out over-zealously only to fall flat. Feel free to indulge in baby steps. Any steps are better than no steps at all, just to get the momentum going.
To short cut your learning curve, simply find someone who’s already accomplished what you’d like to master and invest in their coaching or how-to programs.
TIP #3: Use The Power Of Your Mind
You know that our minds are extremely powerful and it’s where creation begins for everything ever made, whether tangible or intangible.
Our brains connect the dots by showing us clear paths when we focus on what we want to accomplish. Once you do that, the universe will begin to reveal the resources you need to get to where you want to be in life.
Here are a few simple mental activities that you can practice on a daily basis:
Think positive thoughts.
Always be grateful.
Recall small successes so you can draw on those when you are feeling nervous, scared, or uncertain.
Be proud of yourself.
If you are spiritual, pray, share, and affirm others as well as yourself.
TIP #4: Use Laser Focus
If you have a goal, the next step is an action plan with small steps but they must be daily steps. You cannot skip a day. Have someone hold you accountable every day for your daily action steps.
Focus on that thing that you want so badly and keep your mind on it at all times. If you feel yourself daydreaming, give yourself some time to daydream but set a limit.
This is called visualization, which creates a stronger connection to those things you’d like to attract in your life.
Make intentional time for family and loved ones, but if a friend calls you for the third time this week to talk about the same problem, be there for them, but limit those interactions, spend your time wisely and focus on your own goals and challenges.
Before you know it, you will achieve your goal and you will move on to the next one.
You just discovered the 4 Tips For Getting What You Want In Life, which has nothing to do with hocus pocus wishful thinking.
There’s way to much hype surrounding the Law Of Attraction concept, which is often times made out to be some type of magical method to get what you want in life.
It takes more than positive thoughts to attract what you want, if all it took was daydreaming about the things you desire most, everyone would be happy, healthy, and wealthy.
It’s more complicated than that, and you have to create a plan, model those that are already successful in whatever areas that’s most important to you, take action, and course correct when things aren’t working, and never give up…
Getting what you want in life is a process, and the sooner that you get started; the faster you’ll get there!